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When you get married and have small children, maybe you are very happy to be together and teach them many things, but, before two teenagers, we would have so much concern about them. Sometimes as parents, we often disagree with them and make you more dizzy to how to behave in order to achieve good communication. Perhaps suggestions below can help you solve the problem.

Several years ago, your child can be very sweet and you always wanted to be nearby, but look now, your words cut and indisputable, he does not listen to advice you, against your word and would not even look around you. Where did the days when he used to always together, you begin to ask if there is something wrong with your self?

Actually, this attitude has never happened before, try to turn your mind back to the time when he was aged about 2 years, maybe you often hear him say "do not want to", screaming and crying. Yes. Exactly. That's what I'm doing now, only she did it with a more different way, than to scream it might just be silent or even your silence and pretended not to hear. You have to understand a bit, this time he was looking for his true identity and your job is to drive.

Your solution:
Maybe you sometimes get hurt by his attitude or the way they treat you with their rejection, I understand that it was not good they do. After all, a teenager knows that he still needs a parent even if they do not want to express.

For tips: mixed feelings they felt for them, you really feel inside, sometimes they have an inner conflict in them because the search for identity. As a parent, stay calm and hang on, remember that this is the time of their rebellion as a teenager and usually will end their time was 16 - 17 years.

No one says that your child may be rude or yell you, but when this happens, try to be calm and tell them "If you can not say something nice without anger, should you not speak first and reflect well who would you talk about, we'll talk again after you think and calm down. We'll wait and listen to what you want to say later ".

Thus your child know that you are always there for them when they need, let them think their own merits and then invite them to discuss. That way your child will not feel reprimanded and they will be happy because it had consulted considered an adult.